Our Changing Family

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Sunday, February 12, 2012

Happy February 11

My husband isn't big on Valentines Day.  We both think it is a terrible thing to spend so much money on one day a year to say, "I love you."  Shouldn't that be done all year long?  While Jonathan was in Korea he began having chocolate covered strawberries to work on February 11.  Why the 11th?  Well 11 is his favorite number.

This is the first year we have been together on February 11.  With it falling on a Saturday and money being so tight I knew chocolate strawberries were not in my future.  (Trust me, having him here is worth far more than those strawberries.)  We have friends coming next week-end and we planned to celebrate with a couple's date night.  However Jonathan had something else in mind.

Around 4:30 yesterday he woke me from my nap and told me I needed to be ready to leave at 5:30 and we were going on a date.  I had LOTS of questions but for the most part he didn't give our destination away.  He took me to the restaurant where we had our first "real date" after he spent his first 6 semester in Korea.  It was at this restaurant that Jonathan says he KNEW he would one day ask me to marry him.  The piano bar, The Quarry, is nothing like it appears on the outside.  Inside it is breathtaking with dim lights, wonderful food and live music.  The music this time left a lot to be desired but the experience was phenomenal.  

The most amazing part was the way he orchestrated the details.  He arranged for my dad to stay an extra night with us this week-end.  My dad was more than happy to keep LA, which was perfect for all concerned.  Jon made reservations and had been saving a little money for this date for weeks.  

Wow I love this man.  We have had our ups and downs since we got married due to job searches, relocation, and a 12 year old with trust issues but I will never forget this February 11.  It took me back to the first 6 months of our courtship and confirmed that this was the man God had for me all along.   

Thank you Jon for making my first February 11 with you so special.  I love you.

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Be Mine, Valentine

My mother always made us a SPECIAL lunch on Valentines day.  She would cut out sandwiches into hearts, give us heart shaped jello jigglers and heart shaped cookies.  It is a tradition I have passed on to my daughter.  LA has always looked forward to her Valentines Day lunch.  Like most traditions they change over time.  In LA's lunch she typically gets heart shaped sandwiches, strawberries cut into vertical bites (which make hearts) and "red" things such as red koolaid and an individual bag of doritos.  

This year is more difficult.  In Polk County they only have a half day on Valentines day, which means NO lunch at school.  I am not ready to let go of my little girl so I decided to do something different.  Rather than one lunch that was special, on February 1st I started adding a treat in her lunchbox each day.  I got most of my ideas from Pinterest, my new addiction.  Here is what I have come up with....

  1. You are just "Write" for me.  - a new pencil and pen.
  2. You are a "pop" star.- popcorn
  3. You are my "main squeeze".  - a bottle of squeezable juice
  4. I "love Juice".  -bottle of juice
  5. I am "nuts" about you.  - bag of peanuts.
  6. You are so much FUN.-  a bag of funyuns chips
  7. Read my "lips", I'm yours.  -chapstick
  8. I "chews" you.- a chewy granola bar.
  9. I'm crazy for you.- crazy straws
  10. Happy Valentines Day to one of my favorite "peeps,"- You guessed it peeps.
  11. You are the "apple" of my eye.  -an apple
Most of the items I already had at home which made this economical.  I wrote the words on construction paper hearts I had cut out with pretty glitter pens and added some stickers.  I made sure to write, "Love, mom and dad" on each Valentine.  Very easy to do.  

I wasn't sure if these would "embarrass" her but she came home, gave me a hug and said thank you.  Maybe I can hold onto my little girl a bit longer.